Make this the month you stop doing queer motherhood alone.
You don't need another mom group. You need people who actually show up.
Gay Moms Club isn’t just a directory or a list of people.
We’re intentionally building a real community, one designed to help you actually connect with other queer moms you’ll talk to regularly, build friendships with, celebrate milestones alongside, and do life with over time.
The goal is simple:
this should feel like people you genuinely know, not just profiles you scroll past.
Host or join as many IRL and virtual hangouts as you want. Your social calendar, filled.
Fill your social calendar
Thoughtful friendship matching based on your parenting stage, vibe, and interests, helping you connect with moms you’ll naturally click with, before you even realize you’re looking.
Find your mom friends
Each space is designed to meet you where you are. Because queer motherhood isn’t a straight line... it’s a whole bunch of overlapping seasons.
Join a support space
Browse member profiles and slide into DMs with anyone who catches your eye. Build real friendships, one message at a time.
Send private messages
Share what’s on your mind, ask questions, brag, or celebrate. Get real answers and support from gay moms who’ve been right where you are.
Share and comment
Drop into a live conversation any time of day. Real talk, no algorithms, just queer moms being moms.
Chat with other moms
Hi, I'm Megan
I'm a gay mom who spent a long time thinking connection was supposed to just… happen.
It didn’t.
Not in Facebook groups.
Not in DMs that never turned into plans.
Not in “we should hang out sometime” energy that quietly dissolves into nothing.
The Gay Moms Club app is a free community app built specifically for LGBTQ+ moms.
Unlock new community spaces, events, and private messaging when you upgrade to a membership. It's available on both iOS and Android.
It's not just about who's in the room; it's about how the room is run. Every Gay Moms Club member is vetted, and the community is actively moderated, so there are no trolls, no big business interests, and no algorithm deciding what you see. Just queer moms who are here for the same reason you are. A real community, not a feed.
Gay Moms Club is for all queer moms! Whether you're raising kids on your own or with a partner, you belong here. Our community is built around the shared experience of queer motherhood, not relationship status.
Harder than it should be, right? Queer moms are out there, they're just not always easy to find in the usual places. Gay Moms Club was built specifically for this. Inside the app, there are opportunities for thoughtful connection every week, plus location-based spaces so you can find queer moms in your area. No awkward cold DMs, no hoping the algorithm works in your favor. Just a place where queer moms are already showing up, consistently, to actually connect.