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Make this the month you stop doing queer motherhood alone.
You don't need another mom group. You need people who actually show up.
Gay Moms Club isn’t just a directory or a list of people.
We’re intentionally building a real community, one designed to help you actually connect with other queer moms you’ll talk to regularly, build friendships with, celebrate milestones alongside, and do life with over time.
The goal is simple:
this should feel like people you genuinely know, not just profiles you scroll past.
Membership Features
Host or join as many IRL and virtual hangouts as you want. Your social calendar, filled.
Fill your social calendar
Thoughtful friendship matching based on your parenting stage, vibe, and interests, helping you connect with moms you’ll naturally click with, before you even realize you’re looking.
Find your mom friends
Each space is designed to meet you where you are. Because queer motherhood isn’t a straight line... it’s a whole bunch of overlapping seasons.
Join a support space
Browse member profiles and slide into DMs with anyone who catches your eye. Build real friendships, one message at a time.
Send private messages
Share what’s on your mind, ask questions, brag, or celebrate. Get real answers and support from gay moms who’ve been right where you are.
Share and comment
Drop into a live conversation any time of day. Real talk, no algorithms, just queer moms being moms.
Chat with other moms
Join Virtual Hangouts for Queer Moms
Weekly Coffee Chat | Tuesdays @ 9 EST
Join our weekly morning coffee chat where we ease into the week like real life does… slow, a little messy, and definitely not polished.
We’ll talk about whatever’s sitting on your chest this week. No prep, no pressure… just coffee, connection, and starting the week feeling a little less alone.
Friendship Matching
You know that feeling of scrolling through the community thinking, "I wish I had someone to actually talk to?"
This is for that.
Our Friendship Matching event pairs you with another queer mom in the community for a simple 1:1 chat inside the app. No awkward networking. No video calls. No trying to jump into a busy group thread.
Hi, I'm Megan
I'm a gay mom who spent a long time thinking connection was supposed to just… happen.
It didn’t.
Not in Facebook groups.
Not in DMs that never turned into plans.
Not in “we should hang out sometime” energy that quietly dissolves into nothing.
So I built what I couldn’t find.
A place where showing up is enough.
Musings on Queer Motherhood
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