Finding a place to call home is more than just about the cost of living—it's about finding a community that welcomes you with open arms. For LGBTQ+ individuals and families, this means seeking out cities that offer both affordability and a vibrant, inclusive atmosphere.
According to a U.S. Census Bureau report, there were nearly a million queer households in 2017 in the United States — and that number only rises as more and more folks feel comfortable to live their truth in the world. But with that comes finding a place that both feels safe, like home and is somewhere the rest of your family will love, too. Here’s our rundown of the 12 most affordable LGBTQ+ friendly cities to consider moving to in 2024.
1. New Orleans, Louisiana
Looking for a city with soul? New Orleans offers a rich cultural tapestry and a warm, welcoming vibe. The cost of living is lower than the national average, making it easier to enjoy everything from jazz in the French Quarter to the fabulous Southern Decadence festival. With its unique blend of history and nightlife, New Orleans is a haven for a vibrant LGBTQ+ community.
2. Buffalo, New York
Buffalo might surprise you with its charm and community spirit. This city offers an array of LGBTQ+ organizations and events, including a lively Pride parade every year. Plus, with affordable housing and a friendly atmosphere, Buffalo is perfect for anyone looking to put down roots in a welcoming environment.
3. Providence, Rhode Island
Providence packs a lot of charm into a small package. Known for its artsy vibe and progressive attitude, the city is a great fit for the LGBTQ+ community. With a cost of living that's easy on the wallet and organizations like Youth Pride, Inc., you’ll find plenty of support and community here.
4. Columbus, Ohio
Columbus is a Midwest gem with a big heart. Its low cost of living and diverse neighborhoods makes it an appealing place to live. The Short North Arts District is a hotspot for LGBTQ+ friendly bars, restaurants, and galleries. And don’t miss the massive Columbus Pride festival — it’s an iconic celebration your whole family will love.
5. Richmond, Virginia
Richmond blends historic charm with modern inclusivity. The city’s growing LGBTQ+ population is supported by vibrant organizations like Diversity Richmond. With a relatively low cost of living and a rich cultural scene, Richmond is a city where history and progress meet beautifully.
6. Louisville, Kentucky
Louisville offers that quintessential Southern hospitality with a progressive twist. With events like the Kentuckiana Pride Festival, numerous inclusive spaces and affordable living, the welcoming vibe makes Louisville a fantastic place to call home.
7. Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania
Pittsburgh has reinvented itself from a steel town to a city full of life and diversity. With tons of affordable housing (that has room for the whole mom group and more) plus a rich arts scene, it's a great place for any LGBTQ+ parent and their kiddos. Like many of these cities, Pittsburgh Pride happens every year and the supportive services of the Persad Center make it an even more inclusive place to settle down.
8. Milwaukee, Wisconsin
Milwaukee’s mix of Midwestern warmth makes it a great place to live. The city is affordable — where rents haven’t skyrocketed and homes are actually affordable to buy — and it also hosts one of the region’s biggest pride festivals, Milwaukee PrideFest. Whether you’re into arts, nightlife, or outdoor activities with your partner and children, Milwaukee has something for everyone.
9. Raleigh, North Carolina
Raleigh strikes the perfect balance between Southern charm and modern progressivism. The city is friendly and welcoming, with a reasonable cost of living and a strong job market. The LGBT Center of Raleigh and a host of community events ensure there’s always something happening for LGBTQ+ folks.
10. Kansas City, Missouri
Kansas City is one place you might not think of when you’re thinking of relocating. But this quaint, inclusive community has a lot to offer at an affordable price. With its extra low cost of living, welcoming folks and more barbecue restaurants per capita than any other city in the U.S., this might be the one for you.
11. Tulsa, Oklahoma
Tulsa combines affordability with many rainbow families. Not only is the city home to supportive organizations like Oklahomans for Equality, but it also hosts Tulsa Pride each year, and there are many other queer, small-owned places to support. Tulsa is great option for those seeking a friendly community, but who also want to plant roots, and buy a place of their own.
12. Albuquerque, New Mexico
Albuquerque’s Southwestern charm (and stunning views!) make it a standout choice. The city offers beautiful scenery, all the nature activities your family is sure to love, a low cost of living, and a supportive community. Plus, services from the Southwest LGBT Center are available, and many other LGBTQ+ inclusive events happen each year.
When choosing a new place to call home, we get how important it is to find a city that supports and celebrates who you (and your family) are. Whether you’re drawn to the rich culture of New Orleans or the progressive spirit of Columbus, there’s a new and inclusive place waiting for you in 2024.